Breaking Apart
There are going
to be things that occur in the process of a relationship breaking apart that
you would rather not experience. Both you and your former partner are going to
say and think things that you don’t mean, in other words things that have no
element of truth in them.
The way your
relationship ends may not go the way you had planned it to and when you or your
former partner are not get what they are aiming for this can throw things into
a spin. In these situations you need to allow yourself to take a step back and
view the issue in the reality that is present. In some cases this means letting
go of an expected outcome in order to move on with your life. This does not
mean the other person “wins” as there is nothing to win except your own self-knowledge.
To let go takes great inner strength and although rewarding in the long run can
be very painful at first.
When you truly
accept the reality of a situation you relinquish your need to control it,
compromise yourself, or be attached to how things MUST turn out. This is what
causes most of your suffering not your former partner. The result will then
give you the space to act with non-attachment and lead you into an awareness of
the next step to take with the current situation and your life.
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